This ERA is YOU. Claim it. Be it. DO it.
If you stumbled across my little corner on the internet. Hi, nice to meet you, but let’s get to the point already. I know you’re not here for me but for you and this is something you NEED to read.
No matter where you are in life, this message will find you at exactly where you are. The struggles you have been facing are shaping you into the person that you are becoming. No matter what you want to do with your life. No matter where you think you might end up or where you have ended up. This is your era. Right here, right now. You get to be the pilot of your life. Stop sitting around waiting for something to change, YOU have to get up and you have to chase whatever it is that you are looking for. No one else can change your life but you. Once you have that part figured out. You tell yourself this is my era and I am not stopping for nothing. Be relentless in pursuit of whatever sets your soul on fire.
Here are 5 ways you are going to enter into your best ERA.
- Stop letting fear stop you
- Do it for you, no one else
- STOP making excuses for yourself
- Set Boundaries
- Romanticize your life
1. Stop letting fear stop you.
Why is fear one of the hardest things to overcome? Because it’s built in the brain as fight or flight. Regardless of whatever your fear might be and its stopping you from doing something that you want to do. We must FIGHT against the fear and do it anyway. Don’t think this is silly but when you feel fear whisper to yourself FIGHT and do it anyway. We live in Tiktok world and we want instant gradificaiton. A lot of time we choose to ignore our fears and hide them away. The more we choose to ignore our fears the easier it becomes. Learn to love not being comfortable.
2. Do it for you, no one else
Stop doing everything for everyone else and do something for yourself. At the end of the day, you are all you have. You might be married, have kids, or something completely different but heres what I am talking about. When you lay your head down at night, the thoughts you have those are yours. Fill your cup first before anyone elses. You can’t pour from an empty cup.
3. STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR YOURSELF
This is a big one. We all do it. Tell yourself you are going to do something and DO IT. Don’t make an excuse.
4. Set Boundaries
Start paying attention to what brings you happiness and what doesn’t. In order for you to enter into YOUR era you need to set boundaries. Pay attention to what brings you joy and happiness. Your energy should be proteched so that you can stay focused and happy.
Stop letting what other people think and say stop you from doing what it is that you want to do. They are not the ones paying your bills. You don’t owe anyone anything.
5. Romanticize your life
When you close your eyes who do you wish to be? Envision what you want your life to look like and make it happen. Make every day feel special, because it is. Every day is gift.
Claim your ERA. This is IT. GO get after it.
